Sunday, 8 July 2012

#Realization

After a long time, I got my enthusiasm back again for writing something. I may or may not impress you guys with my writing. But I feel sometimes it's good to write and share what is in your mind rather than chewing it and keeping it up to you.

I watched a show with a social cause today and it took a topic "Discrimination based on Caste" and it made me think, is this the only type of discrimination we face or see?

So here is my realization about us i.e. about humans (as we claim). We live in a world with a constant discrimination in the name of post, power, gender, money, nationality and looks and offcourse caste.

Now what sort of discrimination I am talking about?

* A stupid statement from a celebrity or a famous person goes viral on internet and forums and the wisest statement from a common person goes unnoticed. A celebrity or famous person gets priority in each and every place he goes and also gets harassed sometimes for a very small issue. That's discrimination based on power, post or fame.

* In this world, though we preach peace, love, brotherhood but the ultimate truth is MONEY is what everybody wants and aims for. Nobody cares or has time to think about anything else. Everybody wants to earn as much as possible for well being of themselves, if not for them atleast for their children's and coming generations. The person with money gets priority and can buy a lot of happiness. You might disagree but it's true to an extent and yes, it's an irony but a truth that money talks louder than anything else in the world. So there is a big discrimination based on money.

* There is no individual in this world who is less competent or lacks dignity or has no character or is cheap or threat to you or society, if he/she belongs to a particular community or nation. But most of us may have heard or have experienced such discrimination. Forms of discrimination may defer but truth is, it is everywhere in the world.

* A person with a good looks will always be good in character and behavior, that is what everybody believes. Everybody looks at a street dog with so much hatred but a dog is loved as a pet. Leave about dog's but nobody looks at a child begging in the street and says "awww so cute"  or hugs him/her but may try to avoid and run away from them. So in this world looks and attire matters more than heart and soul.

* Though every nation and person is talking about Women rights and giving equality to women but deep inside everybody discriminates based on gender. And yes by everybody I mean women's too. Even women discriminate based on gender. Same women who talks about women rights becomes biased or restrictive towards her girl child. Same person who feels disgusted when somebody bad mouths his mother, wife, sister, daughter or girl friend, feels free to give bad remarks or comment on any other women not related to him.

So my point is, if we are thinking about elimination of discrimination from this world we have to target all sorts of discrimination and not just caste or gender or so on.  That will truly make this world a better place. And then only we will become HUMANS (and that too not claimed but a deserved one).

I am not a big star or celebrity, or a philospher who can influence masses, but if even a single person feels motivated and takes a step out of what I outlined here, I will feel obliged. To some it might look as my idiocity, to some it will look like an effort to look good infront of everybody, but my only intention is to speak my mind and motivate myself and atleast few who will read it.

I would like to conclude my post with a great thought 

Kaun kehta hai ki aasman mein ched nahi ho sakhta,
Ek patthar to tabiyat se ucchalo yaroon!!   - Anonymous


-Vabs



Monday, 19 March 2012

5 years of professionalism...

5 years back on March 20, 2007, a 22 year old entered from a small world of dreams to a dreamworld of professionalism along with hundreds of new faces, number of challenges and a lot of hopes. So many wishes fulfilled, so many still to be fulfilled and so many new wishes on the way. 

So many friends and adventures I encountered, so many still left. Its hard to believe and almost impossible to understand if the time is running or am I running. But all in all, I feel so overwhelmed when I see what I have become in these 5 years.
Today, I have completed 5 years in Infosys or rather I say in the professional world. I want to thank all my friends, relatives and colleagues for helping me, guiding and supporting me all these years. 


Also, I want to congratulate all my friends from Mar 07 batch. Congratulations and all the best to you all.

- Vabs

Friday, 9 March 2012

Learning from life for Life........

Sometimes it becomes so difficult to let someone go from your life, though you always thought that you are strong enough to let any one go. For good or bad don't know, but sometimes you have to decide between your ideologies and what others want from you. 


I may be right or wrong, I may be weak or strong but one thing I am sure, I can't be what I am not. If I am true to myself and if I know what I am doing then even god can't change my thinking or my belief.


Life is not about living it the way other wants you to live, its about living it yourself, exploring new terrains, making new mistakes and lots of mistakes and learning from them. And then when you look back and see, you will see chapters of your life, full of stories (good or bad ). And that will bring a smile, may be a tear, may be a shame but that will be all yours. Nobody can steal it or take it from you. So live life as you want. Who knows if really there is a reincarnation :) :P


P.S. Just a thought. Take it or leave it... ;-)


-Vabs

Sunday, 19 February 2012

You said it, you forgot it.....


Long back, once you said I am the one, I am the person you want on a long run.
Everything I did was good for you, you loved my anger and even my madness you pursue.
My craziness seemed adorable and my smile seemed cute. I sang for you and you never wanted me to mute.
I tried, I controlled, and I held back myself. You advised you insisted to lose myself.
I believed what you said and that was my mistake but now all I know that everything was fake.
You said I am your life, your love, your pride. I don’t know now, where and why you hide.
Once you said I am the one and now I know, I am amongst none...

You said it you forgot it but I will not complain. I know one day you will regret it and feel INSANE.....




- Vabs

दिल से...

आज फिर कुछ लिखने की चाह दिल में आई है..यह सोच हमने कलम उठाई है...
बयां कर सकते है हम बहुत कुछ, पर अल्फाजो की कमी छाई है!
हर मौसम, हर रंग, हर खुशी, हर गम, हर दर्द से ऊपर उठ गए है हम!! जिंदगी ने हमें कुछ ऐसी सिख सिखाई है... हर कोई है अपना, हर कोई है पराया, एक मै ही हु जिसने हमेसा चोट खायी है!!

मिल जाते है बहुत अपना कहने वाले, पर कुछ लोगो ने ही अपना बनाने की जेहमत उठाई है...
किसी ने कहा था हमें के आये हो अकेले, जाना है अकेले, फिर क्यों तुमने दुसरो से उम्मीद लगायी है?
एक तू ही तेरा है, एक मै ही मेरा है! लोगो की भीड़ है, फिर भी तू अकेला है..पहचान ले खुद को, ये सोच दिल में आई है!!

आज फिर कुछ लिखने की चाह दिल में आई है..यह सोच हमने कलम उठाई है!!!

- वैभव 

 



Saturday, 11 February 2012

Breathe and feel life.........

Clear Skies, never ending land, yellow leaves on the ground, the scope of sun,  miles to go, eyes trying to reach the limit, everything is clear but the quest never dies. In the arms of the nature, in the swings of wind, in the bliss of sun, in the mud of rain, in the freshness of grass, in the mist of clouds, in the soul of music, in the vision of colors, in the depth of oceans, in the shadow of mountains, feel so alive, feel so high, feel so calm, feel so beautiful - feel Life!


Starting to turn over some stones, trying to redirect the wind, facing the fears, juggling between the time....Life is not about all these big words-All you got to do is Breathe and feel alive!




- Not written by me..Got it from one of my friend..Hoping for your comments :)

Saturday, 28 January 2012

A hope, a ray.......


A hope, a ray of sun coming to me, I will look up my mistakes and will follow my dream.
I am determined and I am fearless, so much to gain and so much to face!
Will follow my heart this time; have compromised a lot but not this time....
Will love, live and laugh like I never did, my life is small but I will make it BIG!!!

So many people I have lost, but that’s the experience I’ve got.
So many loves me and few do hate, life is in our hand but there is a fate.
Got scared, failed and unselected at times, this is the reason I am what takes to be “I”...
You never know the pain I was through; you will never understand what it takes to be on my shoe.
This is the time when I have to get off and find where I am, the world is big and so small I am....

This is the time I will take off, and I will be Big and world will be small...


-By Vabs

Wednesday, 25 January 2012

With time everything changes..People change, their priority changes,their emotion changes and so do their behavior..Changes are inevitable..So instead of worrying about others try to bring positive changes within you.... 


-By Vabs
I never pretended, I never put you on conditions, I never made false commitments, I followed your decisions...
Even though I wanted to say a lot I kept Silence, You ignored my affection you ignored my politeness..
I concern your happiness ignoring my emptiness, thought of losing you brings unease and dizziness...
I might not tell you and I might never show, I love you, I love you and that is why I let you go.. 

- By Vabs
Mohabbat k har iljaam se mai khud ko Mehfus na kar saka...
Chaha use bahut par bayaan naa kar saka...
Jitni uski khata thi utni hi meri bhi thi..
Vo  intezaar naa kar saki aur mai ikraar naa kar saka..

-By Vabs

A thought to which you might relate..


If ever given a chance to relive past. I will go back to the days
Where a shout from my mom wakes me up, rather than this stupid Alarm..
Where I have a choice to eat, rather than thinking everyday what would I eat today..
Where I can talk to my friends and family, rather than chatting and calling...
Where beaten by dad is better than beaten by life and its issue...
Where I can just lie down and close my eyes in my moms lap, rather than sleeping in this comfortable bed...
Where fight with a friend is worse than the fight with managers...
Where I don't have to prove myself each second, minute, day of my life...

I want to relive my childhood with my friends, my brother, my dad and most importantly with you MOM..
Missing all of this...

Stop and look back......



When I look around, people are running so fast, leaving friends, family, parents, places everything behind. And immediately a question comes to me. Am I evolving too? Does the innocence, Honesty, carelessness, Love for life and others is getting overshadowed by the materialistic needs of life?

Everybody is running and that is making me run as well. If not for winning then just to be in the race. I often feel a need to just stop and look back and analyze and realize what all I have achieved. Have I really achieved something?

I often want to go back to my childhood where a single coin makes me happier than the richer person I am now.

I want to be with the friends who can be with me without any reason and condition than the friends who are so busy in their life that they can’t even talk but still share videos :Har ek friend jaruri hota hai(each and every friend is important) quite an irony but I am no exception.

I want to go back to the time when going to a 25 mile trip was way more exciting than a trip of thousands of miles across the globe.

I want to go back to the time when hanging out at a road side tea stall was better than hanging out at a fancy restaurant with 100 options.

Often I feel a need to stop and look back. In childhood my elders used to say the time once gone is gone and I do realize now that what they meant.

We need to ask why? Why are we running so fast? Don’t you think little kind gestures towards our family and friends will make them happier than the success and achievements we are getting makes them.

Just slow down, take an off, relax a while, do something stupid, make others laugh, look like an idiot, share whatever you want, do whatever you want because you never know if “Zindagi milegi dobara”(If you get a second life)...

No Offense meant to anybody..And don’t tell me that I am crazy because I know that I am :P


Dedicated to all my friends, colleagues who once in a while do realize it, but are afraid of lagging behind in this rat race.... Live life to fullest...